She will manipulate your desires, impale your ego, storm the inner seats of your conscience and mind fuck you like you’ve never been fucked before. You will voyage through jealousy, through rage, through physical torment, through sexual droughts, and through it all, you must prosper. You must not cry, you must not beg, you must not give in. Before you gain mastery over her, you must gain mastery over yourself.
A woman does not respect a man who does not have control over his own emotions. And she cannot love a man she does not respect.
Women are naturally sadistic. They are turned on by Alpha’s who dominate them and men who are in control of their own emotions, but they get no greater satisfaction than from breaking the egos of these men. They want to see you crumble, they want to see you beg and cry for mercy. For women, it is not the body but the mind whose conquest gives them the greatest satisfaction. They are inherently wicked, and psychotically sexual.
The first step in learning how to control your emotions is to admit that you have a problem. See yourself as you really are. What would happen if your girlfriend left you right now, would you cry and ask for another chance or would you move on to better things? You have a choice between the world and one woman, what do you choose? Would you give your girlfriend another chance if she cheated on you? 99% of men are betas or chumps. Probability dictates that you are one of these, and thus need to work on yourself. AFC’s and chumps always get girlfriends. In fact, their single greatest mistake is that they are not single. With delusions of love and romance, they are able to convince themselves that they have game. It is not until they are left broken and miserable that they realize their fallacies. It’s easy to pretend to be “confident” and “Alpha” when you have a girlfriend. It’s when she leaves you for a real Alpha that you really get to test your manhood.
Take careful notice of every faux pas you make. Have you passed every shit test a girl has thrown at you in the last month? Don’t just brush off mistakes. Understand why they happened and learn from them. Make sure it doesn’t happen again. Self-mastery is a slow process that takes a lot of work. It means realizing every little mistake you make and fixing them. If in the past you have begged your ex girlfriends to take you back, then you MUST change and make sure that the next time you get dumped, you seek a hotter girl to soothe your pain rather than regress into a cycle of desperation. Purge yourself of your blunders and you will see yourself become the person you want to be rather than the person everyone else tries to mold you into.
Realize that men are naturally in control of their emotions. It will give you inspiration. While women are forever imprisoned by their own voices, men are free to speak to themselves. Do not assume that you have no hope of changing. You are not naturally “insecure” or “shy,” that is how the world has molded you. The world dictates that men be fearful and submissive, hence why we turn out that way. But we are free to embrace masculinity and our freedom if we choose to do so. You are naturally confident, powerful, and attractive. You don’t need to build these things. You don’t need to build your mastery over your emotions, you only need to shed yourself of the fears and self-conscious thoughts that society has put in you. You are naturally a Don Juan, becoming an alpha male is more a process of discovery than invention.
Never rationalize your behavior. If you make a mistake in the game, then you made a mistake. If you begged your girlfriend to come back to you and she finally accepted, you still made a mistake. Do not rationalize it by saying “I got her back.” She is not the focus, you are. If you allow yourself to rationalize your mistakes, then you will continue making them. If you accept them and embrace your need for change, then and only then will you have a chance at improving yourself.
If you need to punish her for showing unacceptable behavior, you must do it without a wild display of emotion and anger. Read the post on handling disrespect properly HERE.