Women are attracted to masculinity. It seems obvious right? Yes, but the point I want to emphasize is that despite knowing this, men don’t EXECUTE. We know we’re not supposed to have approach anxiety, yet we have it. We know women aren’t attracted to desperate guys, yet after a break up, we throw ourselves at our ex girlfriends like beggars. We know that to become more confident and develop ourselves mentally, we need to constantly overcome our fears, yet we stay in our comfort zones. What I’m trying to say is, KNOWING is not enough. We already KNOW. Everyone reading this article has probably read a thousand articles about women, dating, relationships etc. We all KNOW what we should do, but we don’t DO it. The problem isn’t KNOWING, it’s EXECUTING.
So yes, women are attracted to masculinity. We all know that. But the real test for us, is to see whether we can really apply that knowledge to everyday life. For example, the next time you have to choose between staying at home and playing video games versus going to the gym, what will you choose? You know you should choose the more masculine activity, but WILL you?
Next time a girl breaks up with you, will you call her and beg for her back or will you go out and fuck a thousand other chicks? When you’re choosing between eating junk food that increases your estrogen level or almonds and nuts that increase your testosterone, what will you choose? Sit around and watch TV like retired women or go out and play basketball? If you’re in college, are you going to choose classes where you barely need to do any work (because you’re scared of actually having to think hard) or are you going to choose a challenging major and curriculum? Do you think it’s masculine of you to be scared of ANYTHING? Men don’t feel fear. And I don’t mean being fearful of the dark or bears. Today, our fears are mental. It’s great that you’re not afraid to start a fight at a bar, but are you immune to social phobias? Can you approach women in groups, can you speak in public, are you willing to risk your career to follow your dreams?
Apply this to every decision you have to make from now on. Constantly have it on your mind. If you want to be a MAN, then you need to make decisions that a MAN would make. Men aren’t lazy, they aren’t passive, they aren’t fearful. We’re aggressive, we’re bold, we’re conquerors. Spend every day drinking beer or work out, climb the corporate ladder, and drink hard whiskey on weekends only to let some steam off? Follow a masculine lifestyle.
Check out the article on Alpha Male vs Beta Male: (http://www.solvemygirlproblems.com/?p=49) to get a better understanding of the Masculine vs Feminine decisions you should be making and the qualities you should foster in yourself.