Getting over an ex girlfriend: Sleep with other women
I have dealt with the most severe break-ups known to man kind. I have seen men left suicidal, broken, and utterly destroyed. And through it all, I have noticed that the reason for their bottomless sense of grief was not at all what they thought it was, or what they paraded around about. Following a break-up men have told me “she was my soul mate,” “I loved her more than anything,” “We were supposed to get married,” yada yada yada, i e; that they were upset because of a cosmic sense of love and belonging that they had lost. Following further investigation however, the real reasons came out to be much less grandeur…
(a) The girl they were with was significantly better looking than any other woman they were with or any woman they slept with post-break up
(b) They didn’t think they could do better than this woman
(c) They felt a competitive anxiety, they hated picturing other guys fuking the beauty that was supposed to be theirs
The parasitism induced by the ex girlfriends of these men had fed off of fear and missing physical attraction, not love or belonging. And this isn’t a rare occurrence, I have noticed that all men torn apart by their break ups are actually crippled over THESE reasons, not the extravagant ones they like to offer.
No amount of attachment anxiety can withstand the earth-shattering feeling of busting into a girl hotter than your girl friend. The experience is truly enlightening, something that would leave the Dalia lama illuminated. It awakens your primal instincts and instantly reminds you of your manhood. It serves as an ether to your Oneitis, burning through your dependency and attachment issues. I cannot emphasize enough the medical benefits of such an ethereal experience.
If you’re currently suffering from the trauma of a break up, check out this post on truths you need to accept to get over your ex girlfriend
shark,
what do you do when your culture / religion forces oneitis on you, what I mean is that not only would it be wrong to marry someone that is from a different religion but also it would be wrong to marry someone from a different caste… this has forced 3 oneitis on my life and when i meet a girl thats attractive and is from the same caste (we can tell by last names), i just go down a slippery road, that is hell… this and that fact that i think 9/10 girls are ugly, i feel like i’m doomed… i got a bad case of oneitis, does busting my demon seed into any girl hot or hotter than my ex fix my problem?, I’m scared it will make my oneitis much worse…
What a great article! It definitely can be a tough thing and it definitely does take time to get over the one you love. Honestly I have found a great strategy that helped me out personally. You can check it out here: http://gettingoverbreakup.net/ Just wanted to pass this information to you to share as well!
Jim