I have dealt with the most severe break-ups known to man kind. I have seen men left suicidal, broken, and utterly destroyed. And through it all, I have noticed that the reason for their bottomless sense of grief was not at all what they thought it was, or what they paraded around about. Following a break-up men have told me “she was my soul mate,” “I loved her more than anything,” “We were supposed to get married,” yada yada yada, i e; that they were upset because of a cosmic sense of love and belonging that they had lost. Following further investigation however, the real reasons came out to be much less grandeur…
(a) The girl they were with was significantly better looking than any other woman they were with or any woman they slept with post-break up
(b) They didn’t think they could do better than this woman
(c) They felt a competitive anxiety, they hated picturing other guys fuking the beauty that was supposed to be theirs
The parasitism induced by the ex girlfriends of these men had fed off of fear and missing physical attraction, not love or belonging. And this isn’t a rare occurrence, I have noticed that all men torn apart by their break ups are actually crippled over THESE reasons, not the extravagant ones they like to offer.
No amount of attachment anxiety can withstand the earth-shattering feeling of busting into a girl hotter than your girl friend. The experience is truly enlightening, something that would leave the Dalia lama illuminated. It awakens your primal instincts and instantly reminds you of your manhood. It serves as an ether to your Oneitis, burning through your dependency and attachment issues. I cannot emphasize enough the medical benefits of such an ethereal experience.
If you’re currently suffering from the trauma of a break up, check out this post on truths you need to accept to get over your ex girlfriend