“Women do not deceive men. Men use women to deceive themselves.”
Judge by actions, not by words. I’ll give you 4 examples of readers that have e-mailed different scenarios and asked for advice. In each of these scenarios, the reader misinterpreted what the woman was saying by focusing on her words and theatrics rather than on the message she was relaying to him. Neanderthals. Getting into the details of each scenario would take too long, I’m just going to show you the correct way to translate.
(a) Woman texts reader A and asks him if they still had a date; she had forgotten and thinks she might have “accidentally” double booked.
Translation: Not enough interest. When it comes to dating and romance women only pretend to be helpless victims of clumsiness and manipulation. They plan things out with surgical precision that would put the Third Reich to shame. On the other hand he might have come across a woman that simply wanted to shit test him. Either ways this is a NEXT.
(b) Reader B gets cheated on for an Alpha. Girlfriend comes back and asks for forgiveness; she “needed” to make the mistake to see the fault in her ways.
Translation: Girlfriend’s attraction kicked in and she dumped the beta for an Alpha. Later on her nesting instinct kicked in an she went back to the guy who provided for her. Another Next, no excuses for cheating. Ever.
(c) Girlfriend wants to end long-distance relationship with Reader C. Reader C claims alphaness and high interest, doesn’t understand why.
Translation: Logistics (not enough contact) doesn’t drive down interest level, but it does prevent a girl from getting what she needs in a relationship. She needed him THERE to make her happy. No point in dragging on this relationship, it’s already heading to the gallows.
(d) Woman comes up to Reader D at the end of a night at a bar and tells him “I was trying to flirt with you, thanks for being oblivious to it all.” Reader D claims he was flirting with her, but saw no escalation.
Translation: Women D wanted reader to escalate, he was to big of a pussy. Men don’t flirt, women flirt. You ask for a number to show her you’re interested, you don’t have to use a ritual mating dance or display some sort of esoteric body language.