Solve My Girl Problems

Reader’s comments

If I had time, I’d dedicate an individual post to all the people who have asked me for feedback; but unfortunately I have a busy schedule consisting of multiple sessions of masturbation, power-leveling in World of Warcraft, and several well-timed naps. On top of this I’m trying to maintain a healthy 12-15 hour sleep cycle, hence I only have enough time to abruptly answer the recent comments I’ve received.

 

“Shark, I cannot thank you enough for how much u changed my game with girls, its unreal how ur stuff works. I did the exact opposite of what u are saying here to my gf in hopes she will appreciate my efforts, everything backfired. So I followed ur advices one by one, started dating other chicks, never talked about my emotions with her I’m ice cold I’m unpredictable , in 2 weeks shes already eating from the palm of my hand I’m fucking stunned the less attention I give her the more she wants me, at first I was like W T F? but it all makes sense now. I love you dude keep up the work.”

 

When people first start applying game, the effect is unreal. Seeing the world unfold around you exactly how you were told it would elicits a certain mind-fucking sensation… followed, perhaps, by rug burns on your penis and a shrinking of the testicles from fucking too much.

Relationships are naturally counter-intuitive, but it’s hard to see because of all the donkey shit being fed to men these days.

Good luck in your future endeavors Alex, I trust that you’re on your way to eternal bliss and you won’t be forgetting what you learned any time soon.

 

“my girlfriend cannot make up her mind if she wants to be with me or if she wants to leave me. shes going to college and that’s the biggest issue for her. wat do i do?”

 

Never entertain the idea of a long-distance relationship. Any time a man makes a huge concession of ground in a relationship, whether it’s being complacent with a lack of sex or moving across the country to live with her, it automatically signals to the girl that he MUST have a lack of options. For a woman, it’s a HUGE DLV (Display of lower value), opening the doors for a flood of shit tests and lowered attraction.

The fact that SHE cannot make up her mind already indicates that she has much more power over the relationship than you do. Your job isn’t to wait intently until she makes up her mind, be cool and laid back. If she leaves you, then you move on. Life doesn’t end at one girl.

Don’t be needy, don’t be desperate. Have other options. Be confident. Stay Alpha.

 

“Wow. This blog is amazing and helpful in many ways. I enjoy reading your stuff. My problems however aren’t getting laid, my problems are sticking with a girl (or make her stick with me).
Yeah, I tend to go beta( the shit’s gotta stop) when in a relationship that isn’t going my way. I had no idea why, but this post made me see things a little clearer.
I discovered your blog about a week ago, and I have some catching up to do.”

 

You’re not alone, Beta backsliding is everyone’s biggest problem. While approach anxiety, or a bad wardrobe can be fixed within a relatively short period of time, beta backsliding requires an intense internalization process to fully fix. The problem lies in our own minds — which rationalizes being lazy at game when a blanket of security presents itself. Guaranteed pussy every night (almost) is great, but a perk with a short-life span unless you can maintain the alphaness that got you there in the first place.

Relationships give you a bigger margin of error than pick-ups, which is why beta-backsliding doesn’t seem as bad sometimes. When you first meet a girl, a DLV will get you instantly LJBFed. When you have a girlfriend, a DLV will just lose you the blowjob you were gonna get. It’s not until your entire “Alpha” persona becomes a contorted version of itself that your girlfriend will dump you.

 

I’m in this situation. Is there a way to get out of it and become more than the savior? If so, how?

 

Yes, but I wanted to post on this anyways so I’ll hold off on answering this one.

 

“wow was i about to make a big mistake in my life.
dumb question i know, but what about saying something like — I’m attracted to you-”

 

“I’m attracted to you” still maintains a silhouette of desperation.

Direct approaches work when they are accompanied by huge displays of gallantry. Nothing shows a girl you have balls more than cold-approaching her directly with Bond-like etiquette.

More bashful direct approaches make you look like you haven’t had pussy in decades.

You can show a girl you’re attracted to her in a myriad of other ways. Ex:

You: “You look like a toad”
Her: “Why are you always so mean to me?”
You: cuz you’re cute
Her: Your confusing me! :(

[Confusion = disorientation = susceptible to further Jedi-Mind Tricks. Or if you have enough game, skip all the steps in-between and stick it in her ass]

The next question provides another example

 

“Hi shark, going to a party tonight. going to see a girl that I kinda like and I think she likes me back. how do I confirm that she’s coming / pregame her a bit before the party? i don’t wanna ask “are you coming” because I feel like that would be 2 needy. Any advice would be appreciated!”

 

You can text her “Wear a low-cut shirt”

Humor, audacity, sexuality, and confirmation all in one sentence.

Successfully mastering the art of telling-a-girl-you-like-her-without-telling-her is the secret to forever opening the way to bedrooms and boudoirs’.