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How to be “Charming”

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Another question: What does being charming ACTUALLY mean? And how often should you compliment a woman?

 

If Brevity is the soul of wit, charisma is the soul of seduction.

I once read a story which explained the concept of being charming perfectly. The story was told by a/an inferior female British author, and recalls her experience talking to two different men, both of whom were running for prominent positions in parliament. One of them was considered the most charming, the other the most cunning. We’ll call the charming one parrot and the cunning one fox.

This was the woman’s story, condensed:

“After talking to fox, I felt like HE was the smartest, most intelligent person in the world. I thought I was surely going to vote for him. But after talking to parrot, I felt like I was the smartest, most intelligent person in the world. I could not help but fall prey to his charm.”

That’s what charm is, more or less.

There’s just one thing people need to keep in mind, which is often overlooked.

You MUST MUST MUST be in a position of higher value / dominance to be charming. When George Clooney compliments a girl, it’s considered suave as fuck. When a homeless guy does the same thing, he’s considered desperate. When you are in a position of lower value, being “charming” only makes you seem like you’re trying to hard. It necessitates a form of supplication, the girl thinks you are over-compensating for a flaw or trying to qualify yourself to her.

There’s no definite formula for the amount you should compliment a demon girl, but keep it low or non-existent. Generally the hotter she is, the less you need to compliment her. Always remain indifferent towards a girl’s beauty; no woman is to be worshipped for her looks, ever.