Life vs Chasing Women
Reader Comments:
“Hi Shark…can you do a write-up on how to balance your life goal vs chasing women? I mean life without women is also boring cause this is our biological need as men, but a life spent chasing women all the time can be a waste. Chasing women takes a lot of time and mental commitment. It seems very difficult to focus both on your life goal (work) and women at the same time. So how do you balance these two properly? Thanks.”
“You lose money chasing women; you never lose women chasing money.”
The two are not mutually exclusive the way you think they are. Men are led to believe that relationships are “difficult” and pursuing women takes a lot of effort because women WANT them to feel a need to constantly validate themselves for approval. The dating market has been reduced to a concerted effort to disempower men and maximize their utility for a greater female prerogative. Ask any Super Alpha about his experiences with women and he’ll tell you it was always easy, no external effort was ever required. Everything just… flowed.
You should never need to “focus” on women. Only PUAs do it because their careers are oriented around seducing women but other wise, women are only compliments to your life. No girl wants to be your focus; she wants you to focus on taking over the world while she supports you in your endeavor for world domination.
Also notice that women will aggressively compete for men with social proof. If you work on inner game and become famous or rich, women will flock to you. You don’t have to be super-star famous, but any type of relative fame will help power all the oscillating vaginas within your region. Working on “life” is simply an indirect way of working on women.
hey shark, tell us abt the secret of eye contact, they say eyes are the mirror of the soul, so how to look at chicks u wanna attract, how to look at chicks that dont want you but still u wanna attract, how to look at general public, etc
This article, more than the others, really clicked for me. Short and to the point. Words to live by.
Well fact is not everyone is sucessful in work and career goals or making money. So what happens to us? We don’t get any women, we live lonely lives?
you are already srewed up. even if you focus on woman you are not going to get.
I have found if I worry to much or try to hard to find a woman it leads to misery. When the time is right and I am not needy then it will happen. Life is to short for me to miserable with the wrong woman.