“What about Jay-Z’s #1 rule: Stay on her mind.”
“Mind” is the key word. This is simply another rule vomited out by a society marginalized from it’s own embrace of feminization. “Stay on her mind” means stay on her MIND; not outside of her doorstep, not next to her at all times, not on the other line of the phone 24/7, and not by her bedside creepily staring at her while she sleeps, thinking that what you’re doing is a romantic gesture.
Neil Strauss puts it beautifully in The Game. At one point he describes how he REFUSED to sleep with a girl and despite not having sex, it was his best execution to date. The obsession with “F-closing” blurs the actual fundamental — Creating desire. Technically the most efficient close ever would be me in Thailand when I asked a girl “How Much” and immediately received 4 consecutive blowjobs. But I promise, there wasn’t much “game” involved.
Similarly, it’s easy to misinterpret “staying on her mind.” To illustrate,
When does a girlfriend think about her boyfriend the most? When they’re living together and sharing a toothbrush or when he’s out on a trip and she’s a tad bit jealous over all the female attention he gets?
More anxiety/love is created by absence and dread than security and familiarity. The key is not just to “stay on her mind,” but to create anxiety in her mind, to make her wonder about you, to be avante-grande, caddish, and unpredictable.