Being an Asshole
Despite the fact that most woman will contend, even under oath, that they hate assholes; arrogant bastards are undoubtedly the most extensively circulated assets among women. At this point it should be obvious to most guys that being an aloof asshole with a diabolically lethal ability to tease and taunt women will get you massive amounts of pussy. If it’s not and you STILL think that being super nice and singing haikus outside of a girls window is the way to go, I suggest you either read this blog from top to bottom a couple of times or strongly consider shock therapy.
One of the key things to remember, with respect to being an asshole, is that the amount of apathetic indifference, aloofness, or patriarchal authority you must command, CHANGES depending on the girl. Most guys try and look for a universal formula, and they end up fucking up some girl’s self-esteem and then wondering if “game” isn’t just a masculine regurgitation of psychologically dangerous tactics.
Not all girls require you to be a pettifogging machine of dominating alphaness. You have to be able to gauge what level of assholeness is required for maximum vagina turbulence. If you push it too far with some girls, you risk activating anti-slut defenses, or simply turning them off. If you don’t push it hard enough with other women, they will simply assume higher status than you, or bombard you with a plethora of shit tests.
When girls act like attention whores, when they flirt with other guys while on a date with you, when they insist on you paying for everything every time, when they shit test you every 15 minutes, and when their egos are comfortably sitting atop a skyscraper, tear them apart. When you’re dealing with a girl clearly accustomed to status whoring and throwing hurdles every 10 minutes, don’t hold back.
*Acting insecure is also an extension of this. Most girls who act excessively insecure only do so to manipulate the savior schema most men have ingrained within them. This is why guys who have had new girlfriends leave them to go back to the “abusive ex-boyfriend” inevitably end up confused as fuck. You were played.
When girls live for other things besides male attention, when they display PROPER feminine deference (because they believe in your leadership, not because they are incapable of doing anything themselves), you can turn down the asshole persona a few notches.
Another note to remember: Fem priests and women who take pride in destroying the egos of other men require an inhumanely stiff pimp hand. I have had girls overtly tell me that they WANT to be hit by their boyfriends. You do not treat these girls the same way you would treat a reasonably shy girl who truly despises arrogance.
Should one crush/tear/break/destroy a ex’s self-pride/esteem to gain power/ domination/ selfesteem back? I have an opportunity to do so during one of the biggest moment of my ex life (presentation) i (as one of her colleagues) plan to do so by actually not looking at her while she is giving the marketing presentation (aloofness) since we are not on speaking term what harm can be done, so should i do it ? say yes say yes !!! :D
or does it go against human morals (ex code)?
@Alpha 1-
I’m not sure if your opportunity’s passed yet, but no offence, that’s a pretty weak way to get back at someone. A Real Alpha would just next her and not even give her the time of day. Purposefully ignoring her will only make you look immature. If you are still hung up on this girl and you REALLY want to get back at her, either bang one of her friends or another chick she was jealous of during your relationship. Either way though, the best way to get back at her is to hit the gym, get in shape, and start banging girls that are hotter than her.
P.s. there is no EX-code, or guiding set of human morals. You make those yourself =)
I worry I’m becoming an evil ba$tard…is there any hope Shark or do all men eventually unplug from the Matrix & become ba$tads at least for a while.
Help…I wonder for my sanity or morality!