Despite the fact that most woman will contend, even under oath, that they hate assholes; arrogant bastards are undoubtedly the most extensively circulated assets among women. At this point it should be obvious to most guys that being an aloof asshole with a diabolically lethal ability to tease and taunt women will get you massive amounts of pussy. If it’s not and you STILL think that being super nice and singing haikus outside of a girls window is the way to go, I suggest you either read this blog from top to bottom a couple of times or strongly consider shock therapy.
One of the key things to remember, with respect to being an asshole, is that the amount of apathetic indifference, aloofness, or patriarchal authority you must command, CHANGES depending on the girl. Most guys try and look for a universal formula, and they end up fucking up some girl’s self-esteem and then wondering if “game” isn’t just a masculine regurgitation of psychologically dangerous tactics.
Not all girls require you to be a pettifogging machine of dominating alphaness. You have to be able to gauge what level of assholeness is required for maximum vagina turbulence. If you push it too far with some girls, you risk activating anti-slut defenses, or simply turning them off. If you don’t push it hard enough with other women, they will simply assume higher status than you, or bombard you with a plethora of shit tests.
When girls act like attention whores, when they flirt with other guys while on a date with you, when they insist on you paying for everything every time, when they shit test you every 15 minutes, and when their egos are comfortably sitting atop a skyscraper, tear them apart. When you’re dealing with a girl clearly accustomed to status whoring and throwing hurdles every 10 minutes, don’t hold back.
*Acting insecure is also an extension of this. Most girls who act excessively insecure only do so to manipulate the savior schema most men have ingrained within them. This is why guys who have had new girlfriends leave them to go back to the “abusive ex-boyfriend” inevitably end up confused as fuck. You were played.
When girls live for other things besides male attention, when they display PROPER feminine deference (because they believe in your leadership, not because they are incapable of doing anything themselves), you can turn down the asshole persona a few notches.
Another note to remember: Fem priests and women who take pride in destroying the egos of other men require an inhumanely stiff pimp hand. I have had girls overtly tell me that they WANT to be hit by their boyfriends. You do not treat these girls the same way you would treat a reasonably shy girl who truly despises arrogance.