Disrespectful Girlfriend or Wife? Obey The Cock.

On June 20, 2011 by Shark

You’re sitting with your arms stretched out and relaxed at a public venue with your girlfriend and a mix of other friends. Everything seems to be sailing smoothly as you’re flexing your charm by orchestrating a series of jokes, stories, and interesting facts in perfect harmony. And then out of nowhere, your girlfriend drops a nuke. She randomly insults you and everyone goes “ooohhhhh” and starts laughing, she is given exceptional credit for her wit and for being able to take you down. As a social deconstructionist, you realize that she has just given her own ego a huge meal, shit tested you, and championed her own sexual market value; all in a matter of seconds. You also realize that your recovery is essential to sustaining your position as the dominant partner in your relationship. So how do you react?

It depends largely on your position at the venue. There are 3 possibilities:

 

(a) You are perceived as an Alpha by both your girlfriend and everyone else there. You know these people from before, and they have been rightly subdued by your colossal presence. In such a scenario, you can react with utter dominance. Look at her in the face and reply “what the fuck did you just say?” No one sees you as a “beta” who can’t keep his demeanor because everyone has already been possessed by the gravitational pull of your social superiority. You command a large amount of respect and everyone fears your thunderbolt. Your girlfriend’s humiliation sends shivers down her spine but she will be forever thankful that you PASSED her shit test. Such displays of raw dominance make women shake with arousal. I’ve had women OVERTLY TELL ME that they WANT TO BE HIT by their boyfriends if they “fuck up.” I would never support domestic violence, but clearly, certain women need a higher level of asshole game than others (maybe a light shove at most, I wouldn’t want to deprive her of her fantasy).

***Regardless of how high your perceived social value is, anger is like jealousy, it must be used sparingly. If you get pissed like this too often, you will still come off as a beta who can’t control his frame. Not just this, but your tantrums will come off as ego ploys and you risk desenetizing people to your spectacles. Use this strategy once in a while and defer to (b) and (c) for other instances.

 

(b) You are perceived as an Alpha by her, but your status with everyone else is questionable and/or undetermined. This scenario is likely to occur if you’re out with her friends or at an outing planned by her social circle. In such a scenario, anger only makes you come off as insecure. Remember, your relative status determines how others react to you. If you’re a beta, anger makes others look down upon your pitiful self-control. If you’re an alpha, anger makes you come off as someone to be feared. Just recount your own experiences and you will know this to be true. You were fearful when your father was angry, he commanded your respect with as much certainty as any mathematical demonstration. But when your friend who you don’t respect was angry at you, you got angry in return. “Who the fuck is he to disrespect me?”

If you can pull it off, respond in kind. If you’re smooth enough to think of a comeback that can equal hers, or preferably crush it, then let loose. This form of psycho-social dominance serves to bolster your game and shoot your social proof through the roof. Men who can respond in context to insults are perceived to be suave as fuck. Just remember to keep your comeback short — brevity is the soul of wit. If your game isn’t at this level of functionality, defer to (c).

 

(c) You are a recovering beta and everyone in the group sees you as a beta. I would suggest you use your social acumen to neutralize the situation by laughing it off or changing the subject. You can always default to an attitude of amused mastery in any scenario conducive to failure. If you fail at a pick up — act like you don’t give a shit. Girlfriend makes fun of you — act like you don’t give a shit. Just fucked a fat girl and your best friend taped it — act like you don’t give a shit.

 

***Take note that if you decide to respond by matching her wit (which can be done for all three scenarios), you need to respond only in a level that makes other people grin with greater respect. In other words, you don’t want to break out in an argument or power struggle with your girlfriend. Especially in public.***

 

The strategies, going lower in rank, are not exclusive. In other words, the strategy for scenario (a) cannot be used for scenario (b) or (c). However, the strategy in (c) can be used for both scenarios (a) and (b). Likewise, the strategy for (b) can be used in (a), and SOMETIMES in (c). The problem with out-witting your girlfriend if you’re in position (c) is that she might respond more aggressively to put you back in beta orbit.

If you’re in position (c), there is another masterful approach you can take. Flip the table, give her the finger, tell her best friend “go fuck yourself,” and walk out. Re-evaluate your life and take steps to prevent yourself from becoming a surrogate boyfriend next time.

Don’t be afraid to use the Dark Side.

 

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5 Responses to “Disrespectful Girlfriend or Wife? Obey The Cock.”

  • #049

    Hi Shark,
    I have a two part question:

    How would you go about building a new social circle? Just moved to a big city and I’m not sure how to meet people (I’m 18), which is related the second part. I haven’t had many friends in the past years and I feel like I forgot how to hang out with guys. With girls, you don’t need to be friends first, so it’s a little easier, but I don’t really know what to talk about when I’m hanging out with other guys. I don’t feel like I can go out and be totally confident unless I get a few friends first.

    Thanks.

  • calvin

    ^talk about girl, that SHOULD be a common interest.

  • bulgariBLACK

    Lmao @ c’s second strategy! Baller.

  • “I’m sorry everyone, she gets like this between spankings.”

  • Shane

    Hey Shark,

    What about girls spending more time with guys than girls? Are they just desperate for attention? And how should an Alpha handle this ?

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