If She Keeps Asking You to Call Her Beautiful
“Shark, what do you mean by beauty complex? My current gf is a 9.. I try to not to make a big deal about it or compliment her on her beauty. There are plenty of other guys that do every day. But she always wants me to tell her she is beautiful for like a half hour before she will have sex….. I don’t get it?”
Actually, how would you deal with a shit test like this? I know you can establish rapport, attraction, dominance and display amused mastery before it even reaches this point. But how would you deal with it in that specific moment?”
107% of the time when a girl asks for a compliment, it’s a shit test. They want to see how far their probing can yank your balls. You must respond with an unserious & aloof attitude. Some examples:
- “Yes babe, you’re the most beautiful girl I know” and then immediately open up your laptop and have your background be a picture of another girl you know.
- “Yes of course you’re beautiful, but if you ever got fat, I’d dump you”
- “Yes, that’s why you have the top spot at my harem” And then a week later, leave a list lying around of random names and have her be #2 or 3.
If she requires an extra dose of assholeness, you can respond with a straight “no.”
Actually, how would you deal with a shit test like this? I know you can establish rapport, attraction, dominance and display amused mastery before it even reaches this point. But how would you deal with it in that specific moment?
Don’t worry, this is actually a guaranteed shit test every guy must face eventually in their relationship no matter how Alpha they are. Other guaranteed shit tests include “I don’t know if we’re right for each other,” “why were you looking at her so much,” and the infamous, “why do you love me?”
Thank you for the specific response (it gives me some more ideas of what to say if it happens again). In recent weeks I have been saying variations of number 2 and 3 on your list. And guess what? She has since stopped asking …. I also receive all the other shit test you have mentioned in this post. I have been using your recommend A&A approach to handle them. And it works like nothing else. Your really are the man. Since I have been reading your posts my relationship has done a 360 and my gf is crazy about me and chases me for my attention all the time. Thank you!
hey shark i like your articles. how do i get a beautful older woman who gets a lot of attention from men? we’ve been kind of friends a few months ago. Apparently the simple fact of me being younger and in great shape has raised her interest on me, however she has taken me from granted lately(ignoring my messages) cause i showed her a lot of interest. her birthday is comming and i thought i should just move on without sending her a birthday greeting. what should i do? thankyou
You’re the One Shark !
You’re the man Shark !
Thank’s !
Shark, you have the best blog about relationship game.
thank you man!