What is Love?
Reader Comments:
“Love is real” Tell me about it Shark. What is love? How do you emulate it? It seems contradictory to everything I’ve learned from you.
Love is a lucid, free-flowing energy based on the desires of our inner demons. It is NOT a bond, and thinking that it is, is the source of all of our pains.
Love is by definition, unrestrained and autonomous. It has never been, and will never be, “unconditional.” You are exposed to movies, to novels, to propaganda (yes, I used the term propaganda), and to cultural norms that tell you otherwise because contemporary society has embraced a huge spike in the effort to demasculinze men. Luckily, the sad state of society google led you to this site, where all of this can be disillusioned.
Remember these rules forever, especially if you plan on getting married:
1. A woman can fall out of love just as easily as she can fall into love. Time and investment may increase the margin of error you are allowed, but make no mistake, your failure to continuously establish attraction, dominance, humor, rapport, comfort, and other foundations to reinforce a girl’s “love” for you will take its toll on your relationship.
2. To increase the amount of “love” a girl feels for you — you must increase her investment in you. This might seem logical at first, but if you think about it, all guys do the opposite. They buy their girlfriends lavish gifts, they shower them with affection, and they act needy and insecure in the hopes that their “soul mates” will reciprocate with equal effort. If we all take a moment to clear that dense fog that covers our rational mind, then we KNOW, from deep inside our guts, that this is stupidity at its finest. This increases YOUR interest for the girl, NOT hers. When you make a girl work for your attention, when she says I love you first and feels the anxiety of wondering whether you’ll say it back, when she buys YOU a drink, HER subconscious justifies it as “wow, I must really love him.” Cognitive dissonance. Simple psychology. Simply ignored.
3. Reality is merciless. Your heart will be broken, your balls will be weighed, your dick will be measured, your manhood will be tamed, your wit will be tested, and every part of you will be bent, stretched, or destroyed. This is simply the nature of our humanity, of love, and of reality.
“Love” it….as usual.
Holy sh#t Batman.
TOUCHDOWN!
Just as it’s easy for a women to fall out of love with a man, the opposite holds true as well. I was ion a relationship for almost 4 years with a girl. We lived together, she had a kid (when I met her, he was three), shit went downhill fast.
One thing that I realized was that once I started to NOT game her, stopped being challenging, started doing things because I loved her even if they were counter-intuitive to the releationship, it went to shit. I became a complete beta. Imagine the difference between Ryan Reynolds/Dane Cook alpha wise to maybe that kid that stalked the girls around high school asking if they were ok when they had a problem, always trying to “talk”. I was a complete pussy.
Everything Shark says is true. Everything. This is better than your average PUA shit because they don’t focus on the positive masculinity like Shark does. Thanks again homie.
Baby don’t hurt me,
don’t hurt me,
no more.
yea, your article says truth though!! but Shark, what would you do when you know the girl have interest and girl knows you have too but it’s just that none of them are able to go forward (maybe for any reason).. this seems to be a very common in many starter relationships. In which way we should approach to let them know that we love them so that we can keep our pride n dominance all time or in what miraculous way we can make them say?
in one of your posts u said that “dont worry abt her liking u, worry about you liking her” yeah see, this chick likes me, but i dont really like her, i see her as a friend nothing more, no sexual feelings or anything like that, i think she is falling for me, HOW THE FUCK DO I GET TO BACK OFF ? now i know how my ex felt when i was chasing her. :D
i love a girl who is far better looking then me..but she likes me n trust me a lot.she fells bad whenever i go far from her and try to stop me but she never tries to fall in love with me,she is afraid of relationship.i tried to make her realize more than 100 times but she keep running from relationship..what should i do?i had lost my hope already for her…plz help me