“Love is real” Tell me about it Shark. What is love? How do you emulate it? It seems contradictory to everything I’ve learned from you.
Love is a lucid, free-flowing energy based on the desires of our inner demons. It is NOT a bond, and thinking that it is, is the source of all of our pains.
Love is by definition, unrestrained and autonomous. It has never been, and will never be, “unconditional.” You are exposed to movies, to novels, to propaganda (yes, I used the term propaganda), and to cultural norms that tell you otherwise because contemporary society has embraced a huge spike in the effort to demasculinze men. Luckily,
the sad state of society google led you to this site, where all of this can be disillusioned.
Remember these rules forever, especially if you plan on getting married:
1. A woman can fall out of love just as easily as she can fall into love. Time and investment may increase the margin of error you are allowed, but make no mistake, your failure to continuously establish attraction, dominance, humor, rapport, comfort, and other foundations to reinforce a girl’s “love” for you will take its toll on your relationship.
2. To increase the amount of “love” a girl feels for you — you must increase her investment in you. This might seem logical at first, but if you think about it, all guys do the opposite. They buy their girlfriends lavish gifts, they shower them with affection, and they act needy and insecure in the hopes that their “soul mates” will reciprocate with equal effort. If we all take a moment to clear that dense fog that covers our rational mind, then we KNOW, from deep inside our guts, that this is stupidity at its finest. This increases YOUR interest for the girl, NOT hers. When you make a girl work for your attention, when she says I love you first and feels the anxiety of wondering whether you’ll say it back, when she buys YOU a drink, HER subconscious justifies it as “wow, I must really love him.” Cognitive dissonance. Simple psychology. Simply ignored.
3. Reality is merciless. Your heart will be broken, your balls will be weighed, your dick will be measured, your manhood will be tamed, your wit will be tested, and every part of you will be bent, stretched, or destroyed. This is simply the nature of our humanity, of love, and of reality.