Helping Others
Reader Comments:
Hi again Shark, I certainly appreciate your concern about helping everyone out there, but don’t you think women have enough help already?
Most of their magazines since they’re teens have articles about relationship issues…and we, as men, are wondering why they are so good at manipulating men their whole life….!
The term “manipulative” is obtuse and derogatory; most women don’t consciously “manipulate” men. They are following a preordained script engineered way before magazines and soap operas started a propaganda war. It’s easy to blame a girl who cheats on her beta husband or an Alpha husband who pumps his marital frustration into a prostitute, but remember that we are judging them based on ethical fatuity; not objective reality.
Women are more adept at “manipulating” men because they are meant to be more adept at it. The investment in a partner is much greater for them; they can’t afford to lose out on a headstrong plunge. A guy can walk away from a bad investment any time he wants to; the advent of monogamy is relatively new on a comprehensive timeline of social evolution.
I know I bash on feminism throughout my writing, but don’t make the mistake of thinking feminism is synonymous with femininity. Women aren’t the enemy; you are always your own enemy. If men weren’t painfully complacent with their emasculation we wouldn’t have a generation of preening self-pedestalized goddesses. If men weren’t tortuously complacent with being financially stupid, every other family wouldn’t totter on the brink of fiscal collapse. And if men weren’t agonizingly complacent with having their own ambitions gutted by the underbelly, we wouldn’t have a generation of faceless cogs working jobs they hate to buy shit they don’t need.
It’s never you against a girl, you against another business, or you against the world. It’s always you against you.
Shark how do you manage your time? You said yourself youve been working for 15 hours a day in buissnes , I work every day about the same, and it’s getting really hard for me to go to the GYM or to go out at nights with my friends since I don’t get alot of sleep .. Anway, how do you abale to manage your time ?
@Shark – Excellent article. I agree with Saar, I’d love to hear your scheduling routine and maybe even an example of an average week in your shoes.
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Shark, is this an alpha or beta thing to do.
Wow, Shark. I am printing this one out and putting it over my desk to read every time I get distracted.
Dont tell them Shark…they want to be you.
I am a high school girl and have a guy friend who has repeatedly asked me to date him. He did something a while back that makes me know I could never trust him as a boyfriend! Everytime I get home after we hang out & have fun he texts me and asks why I won’t date him. I am feeling like the dude in all this. But I adore him and want to help him in the beta department! He is now “hooking up” with girls trying to be alpha but immediately asking them “Is this just a one time thing?” etc… The girls are laughing about it after! I know he loves your blog but he needs to be told how far from alpha he is acting! The fact that I know he loves your blog & talks about being alpha makes him even more beta to me. Am I out of place to help him with this? It’s just really hard to watch & he doesn’t realize how pitiful he looks. Any advice?