your blog, your book, your advice, your words, have changed mine eyes forever. And with everything I learned, I keep wanting to explain it to other people, especially girls. It seems impossible to me that they can’t understand it because its so plainly true and obvious. Can you explain game to a girl, should you even try? How can it be refuted when its so clearly obvious?
Yes and no. If you tinge on a deep enough truth, you may hit a chord of empathy, but it will not be the type of implicative understanding you yourself have gone through. You might be able to explain to a girl why she feels a certain why, and she may understand it, but it won’t change her perception of the situation nor how she reacts to it. For instance, I tell you “You want to pump and dump your ex-girlfriend because your ego seeks to be appeased.” You may then take that information and use it to allay your Oneitis and cut her loose, or pursue her on more genuine terms (*cough*). A girl will take it to understand herself better, but the chances are slim that it will alter the tilt of her decision. It will help more if it is already in accord with her decision or belief.
I have had variable success with online dating, although much more whilst utilizing the terrible secret I mentioned earlier. I post below, a conversation between me and one such character where I could not help but divulge my knowledge of her psyche after being struck by boredom. Keep in mind though, you should never discuss “game” with a girl. At most you may enlighten her about her own feelings to gather her reaction and amuse yourself.
Her: I like when you hold my hands tightly
Me: Why? Did your dad hold your hands tightly?
Her: lol what
Me: Is he the reason you like assholes?
Her: I do not
Me: You do, you’re probably getting turned on right because I even mentioned the word asshole and am not listening to anything else you say.
Her: Ew no
Her: lol fine maybe a little
Her: I don’t know why I like assholes so much
Her: I hate when guys are too nice to me
Me: All girls like assholes genius, it’s in your bloodwork
Her: but why?
Me: You get bored of nice guys and hate them because they aren’t a challenge to you. Like all girls you only crave the things that run away from you, and will continue to do so until you get old and ugly in which case anything will be welcomed
Her: that’s a mean to put it
Me: I like how you used “mean” since “wrong” wouldn’t apply
Her: How do you know all this?
Me: Know all of what? I’m winging it dude, just guessing. Is this really how girls work?
Her: lol maybe.. is this why I like you?
Me: Yes, but I’m engaged, and I’m not very interested in you beyond having secks
her: that’s so wrong. I hate that im ok with that
Me: but you are, so why argue about it
Her: I wanna meet up
Me: Because we’re talking about assholes and me not caring about you, which happens to turn you on by eliciting the same emotions
Her: you’re too smart and you think too much
Me: you’re too dumb and you think too little, I’m trying to carry the team
Her: why am I ok with you saying something like that to me? I want to be able to fight back. My boyfriends have always treated me badly
Me: Because if you weren’t, it wouldn’t matter. Your mind is thinking “let me try and get him to love me first, THEN my theatrics will actually affect him”
Her: lol I actually love when you explain these things to me
Her: like I feel them but I cant explain them. You put them in words so easily
Me: symptoms of my genius
Her: You’re going to make a really good husband
Me: Or a shrink
Her: lol I love you <3
Her: lol what?
Me: Try and answer, why?
Her: Because you’re smart and funny?
Me: Intelligence is only attractive to you if its accompanied by an asshole. You like guys who think they’re smarter than you, and who treat you dumber. How smart they actually are doesn’t matter
Her: lol maybe
Me: why did you say maybe?
Her: i don’t know
Me: Because no matter how hard you try, you can’t come to full terms with how you feel, and the reasons behind them
Her: I always wanted to have someone analyze me, but not my boyfriend
Me: I’m not your boyfriend
Her: ok w/e you are
It continued, but I have not the patience to type more of it. Notice how she says “you’ll make a good husband” while under the belief that I’m cheating on her while with my fiance. Should tell you everything you need to know about hypergamy, morality, and a girl’s standards.