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Shark,
How much should you tell your friends about the girl your dating? Information always seem to get passed around way to easily and always seem to bite your right on the ass.
Hey Shark,
I need your advice. Me and this girl had been in an oversea country. We had been in a relationship for about 6 months. We are Asians so our relationship perspectives are a little bit different from the West. Ok, enough said.
Her parents disapprove her of our relationship, this is first big issue. Says she is still young (actually she is 19 and I am 22 now). But we have no problem with dating since we both live in an another country. But whenever her mom calls her, she told my girlfriend not to go ahead with any relationship. (Yes, she lied to her mom and yet her mom knows about our ‘interests’) As for the first few months, during this honeymoon stage, everything went well. But over the past couple of months, I had been difficulties in coping with my work. So, I had to quit and unable to find a new job (Jobless now). So my problems became emotional and I was so depressed. Almost everyday, I complained my problem to her (I was being a jerk). Then, her attention shifted to her friends rather than me. (I love her too much so I broke a few alpha male rules)
But it was fine since she had no problem in her life as well. Things went viral when she was extremely depressed from pressures from her mom and family and her studies (she’s still in colleague). At lowest point of our relationship, she told me that we should rather back off since she won’t be happy any longer with me because her mom disapproval. She loves her mom as much as she loves me. So she couldn’t decide. She told me because she was so depressed and I was giving her so much pressure too.
First day, I panicked of course. But later I sincerely apologized to her and promised that I would be cheerful and I did. I try to show her I am happy. And I tried to cheer her up like popping up by her apartment to give her flowers. But since that day, our communication had become to the lowest level. She stopped expressing her feelings towards me. She rarely text to me. Her attention to me was at lowest point now. (according to her best friend, she still loves me very much but afraid to face her mom)
Right now, I can’t get a proper job yet and she is still busy with herself. We had been seeing each other less and less and whenever I text her, the reply was like one worded. Now I am starting to show confident in myself and stayed cheerful and since like 2 days ago, our communication became a bit better I guess. But she is still not showing any interest in me yet.
What should I do? In the past, during our honeymoon stage, we promised ourselves to be the love of our lives. I hope she still thinks too.
Sincerely,
Nick
P.S I used to be her everything. But right now, she focused on herself and her friends only. Even after her depression, she said that was because of her friends cheered her up. (Damnit, I was always there in the first place to cheer her up and she didn’t even notice it!).