What’s she thinking?
Two readers commented on Oneitis, and a certain prevailing theme seems to require adressing: I am so Fucken stuck in oneitis ! I let this girl pull me back in after i...
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Handling Breakups
Reader Comments: Shark— Can you give more elaborate examples, condensed down into one post on “Working on yourself” After a severe breakup or other life failure? There are so many flashes of brilliance...
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No Contact
Hey Shark, how should I text my ex girlfriend after some time of No Contact? I am not sure if she is still affected by the breakup. Is it a terrible choice? What...
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Break Ups
There are three variations of the break up, each with its unique protocol and different standards of etiquette. This will teach you how to maximize your strategic position in each one (Yes, love...
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Kingdom Beta
Reader John submits a mortifying testament to the Alpha-Beta scale: There’s herbiness, and then there’s that soul killing herbiness that makes other herbs within blast radius cringe in disgust and fear. There’s...
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Reader’s Comment
This brought tears to my eyes: “Why am I here? It’s a Saturday night. She was my second LTR. It’s been six months since we’ve seen each other. I walk in, we...
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Choices
I had never known the power of game before. “How could beauty become a banality?” I thought to myself. All of her gripes were just as easily forgotten as they were constructed. The...
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Breaking up with your best friend
shark ive gota issue, that im sure many others have out there. i know to get over an ex, you need 2 go NC and eventually get over her. that shud either pull...
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To My Readers
It’s been a full year since I started SMGP. I had never appreciated how far this blog had come until I started going over old traffic reports and comments from the past. I...
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The Black Flag
None of you know me personally, so you won’t understand a lot of the quirky things I do in the book and in this blog. I don’t write for the same reasons other...
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Reader Comments: Hey, great post as always Shark. I have a question that I haven’t ever seen you address. I’ve been in a relationship with this woman for almost two years, and recently...
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Ego Massaging
Hey Shark “Question, my ex and I broke up 6months ago and went our separate ways, it was not a bad breakup. She went off to another city for a new job and...
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Ex Girlfriend Gives Gift Back
Reader Comments, What do you do if your ex wants to give an expensive gift back to you, now this gift most people might view as costing material amount of money but I...
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Ex girlfriend Ignoring Me
Reader Comments: Hey shark, would appreciate a bit of advice on something. I got over my extreme oneitis for this girl, but I still see her every day, so the thoughts are...
Read More →Oneitis because of religion
Reader Comments: Shark, What do you do when your culture / religion forces oneitis on you, what I mean is that not only would it be wrong to marry someone that is from...
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